50 reasons why I love my Husband

Today anyway..... No I am just kidding, I knew that when I took my vows 5 1/2 years ago, that he wasn't perfect... he just so happened to be marrying the perfect woman...I am allowed to say that right?
It didn't matter that we had done things backwards and had our daughter first, or that the during the rehearsal I laughed so hard trying to rehearse the vows tha tI am sure my inlaws thought I was crazy- to this day I remember VIVIDLY hearing my Mother in law say to me "you better get this right Chrissi, this is serious buisness, you can't laugh tomorrow"...DUDE does she realize who her son was marrying??? It didn't matter that the preacher we had picked to marry us was an idiot who didn't show her true colors until the night of the rehearsal, or that one of our groomsman got into a knock down drag out in our parking lot of our townhouse development and was not going to show up for the wedding. It didn't matter that we spent the night before our wedding together.... or that my stepfather offered to whisk me out the back door as we were walking down the aisle... I was just convinced that marriage was going to be EASY~! who was I freakin kidding? 3 kids and 5 1/2 years later, layoffs, nursing school, moves, bed rest, labors, c sections. we have seen it all... kinda. and still my husband remains loyal, steadfast and STILL helps around the house and with the kids. what kind of man is that?

So today I get home from work- at 8 am. for those of you that don't know me I work m idnights- the glorious midnight shift on a dementia, traumatic brain injury, alzheimers and these days PSYCH wardas an LPN. - so i don't often get alot of sleep, and often I am a walking talking bitch. I get that, i know that , and i frequently apologize for it.I also am back in school. 2-3 nights a week also cutting into valuable sleep time. the hubster works second shift so I average about 3-5 hrs a day of sleep and live for my days off or his. so anyway this am I get home at 8 am or so- and I CRASHED. literally- I don't remember speaking to anyone this am, hell I don't remember going to bed, must have though because I literally spent 13 hrs in bed today- the hubster {or as my sister dear and I affectionalty call him the D-Man, and I swear that her, the D-man and I are the only ones who REALLY know what the D in d-man stands for and no its not his first name, however I won't tell... unless you pay me handsomely of course} woke me up at 2 so that he could go get diapers or something at walmart I think it was diapers- maybe he just needed to run away far far away. anyway he was back at 330 and i was back asleep. he took care of all 3 kids today, did laundry, cleaned the boys room AND made dinner- what kind of man is that? well the D-man is awesome. so today is my ode to the D-Man- as he will be hereafter known in my blogs.
lets see how long it takes me to come up with 50 reasons.. this should be easy right?
starting time....0324 AM.

50. his eyes {really pretty hazel- first thing I noticed about him. }
49. his eye lashes. very long very pretty- can you say pretty in a man? i have long eye lashes too so all of our kids do too. YAY!
48. he has never openly laughed at me when I say stupid things {Ie: well that racoon can't have rabies- he is out at night- everyone knows that if they are out at night they don't have rabies.... well ok so Chrissi is a dumbass} and he has never OPENLY laughed at me, although I am sure he does the minute I walk away.
47. he doesn't make fun of my insane fear of thunderstorms, tornados {they truley are storms of the century to me} or spiders- he just takes it in stride
46. his ass... man is it nice.
45. his patience-it takes a special man to be patient with me.
44. the ease at which he says "no honey you are NOT a bitch"...when CLEARLY I have been one ALL DAY
43. he never ever gets mad at the amount of money I spend on the kids clothes.
42. he never gripes about what i spend period.
41. he worked full time and rarley slept while I was in nursing school so that we could afford to go and not have the daycare expense.
40. he has never ever quit a job just to quit.
39. he loves his parents...unconditionally- how could you not love a man like that.
38. he does not balk at hard work.
37. he does the dishes. daily. without a fight. period. i come home from work in the am and I amnot kidding you EVERY morning he is at the sink doing dishes- seriously.
36.he feeds the kiddos breakfast every am.
35. he does all the laundry in the house. not kidding. he does it all. hangs my clothes up for me, and folds all the kids clothes for me to put away.
34. he cooks. 'nuff said.
33.he doesn't care what other people think of him or his family- he loves us all and thats all tha tmatters to him.
32. he is fiercley loyal.
31. he is so protective of his family, me his kids all of us.
30. he loves having a daddy's girl. it makes him swell with pride.
29. he loves having 3 boys- he loves playing and wrestleing around with them.
28. he is not afraid to change diapers. poopy, pee pee you name it he does it. without question.
27. he is insanely smart- knows things that I would never even know about- and he learns things just to learn.
whew ok... i am stretching it now.
26. he loves my family- for all of our dysfunctions- he loves my parents, my grandparents, brothers sister and aunts uncles cousins.
25. he treats my siblings like they are his own. would do anything in the world for him...
24. when i was breast feeding the kiddos or even when they went to bottles. he ALWAYS got up for the midnight feedings,just to talk to me while I wsa feeding.
23. when I get home in the am and get in the shower there is always a hot steaming cup of coffee waiting for me on my night stand.
22. he never gets mad when i forget to flush the toilet.
21. he very rarley gets mad at the kids
20. he laughs at almost all my jokes.
19. he lets me get drunk and is mostly always the DD.
18. he takes care of me 'nuff said.
17. he takes care of his responsibilities.
16.he is a good sport.
15. according to some of my gf friends he looks like russel crowe. i don't see it. but hey russell crowe is hot. so i will go along with it. although there is one pic of him that he does actually look a bit like him.
14. he is not afraid ot admit when he is scared or doesn't know how to do something
13. his baby batter makes some darn good looking kids! all 4 are gorgeous!
12. he drives everywhere. never complains.
11. he will carry my purse if i ask him. always.
10. he is not afraid to get dirty
9. he loves me uncondtionally
8. he is a great lover {i know you just wanted to hear that right?}
7. he is my best friend {next to pedro}
6. he is my soulmate
5. he will always tell me i am gorgeous even if I KNOW I am fat.
4. he tells me i look nice every day- even if i am just in scrubs
3. he tells me he loves me at least 10 times a day.
2. he kisses me as often as he can
1. he gives me a hug as soon as i walk in the door in the am.

end time. 347- see it wasnt that hard I just had to think on a few of them. so anyway D- Man , here's to you!!!!!